It’s been a varied week here. The weather has turned chilly again so I’ve not been able to sit outside, but my mood had lifted considerably this week. I say ‘had’ because my hormones got the better of me last night and made a bad situation worse, but the less said about that the better. I never thought I’d hear myself say it but I can’t bloody wait for the Menopause. Middle age hormones are worse than teenage hormones! Nobody ever tells you that do they? Anyway as I was saying, lifted mood and all that. I caught up with some much needed cleaning at the beginning of the week and did my usual trip over the border into North Yorkshire to drop off some shopping for my eldest. She is autistic and can’t cope with people wearing face coverings so supermarkets are a no go for her at the moment. I had an extra little something to drop off for her this time that I had made. Some reusable cleansing pads.

A while ago I started looking at the disposable things we use, trying to figure out more environmentally sound alternatives. I’ve always done this really but a couple of years ago with all the talk of microplastics I started putting fresh eyes on it. One of the things my daughter was using at the time was those little round cotton wool pads for cleansing her face, so I made her some washable ones from a brushed cotton pillowcase. They were okay but after a few washes they lost their softness. I have recently been making myself some reusable sanitary towels with a lovely soft bamboo fleece and was left with some offcuts so I made my daughter a few more cleansing pads. They are much softer than the others I made so I think she is happy with them.

Also at the beginning of the week I spent a bit of time looking over my shops and trying to get my head around the changes that have come into play since my Etsy shop was last open for business. I used to ship internationally, in fact most of my customers were outside of the Uk, but when I set up the little shop attached to this blog I set the shipping to ‘Uk only’ to buy myself a bit of time while I got to grips with it all and applied for an EORI number. It turns out getting the number is the easy bit. Understanding how, when, where to use it and how it affects customers is quite another and I’m afraid I won’t be offering shipping outside the Uk until I am confident I know what’s what.

On Wednesday my 19 year old and I went for a short walk in the park. They have chronic anxiety and during the whole of the pandemic they have probably only left the house a handful of times. But the cherry blossoms coaxed them out into the fresh air and we saw goslings too which is always a delight. We counted eight of them but you can only see five in the shot which is terrible quality because I had to zoom in so we didn’t disturb them.

Cherry blossom

Wednesday and Thursday were quite productive on the craft table. My youngest took delivery of some more yarn for the jumper she is making (I’m going to tell you about that soon) and I had added a few balls of cotton for making dishcloths to the order. By the end of Thursday I had finished one (badly) and started another. Most knitters can probably roll these out with their eyes closed but it turns out I need a counter just to keep track of whether I’m on an increase/decrease row or not. Told you my working memory is rubbish. Just in case it’s not obvious, I didn’t use the counter for the first cloth. The lime green one is already looking neater.

knitted dishcloths

I’ve also been making a few hexies. The Liberty fabric ones are being made up into a couple of pin cushions to gift to some friends and the Laura Ashley ones are for my vintage bedspread. The bedspread is actually the first EPP project I ever started, which was a couple of years ago now. I’m a slow worker. Still haven’t finished the dog by the way.

Liberty hexies
Vintage Laura Ashley hexies

Today is Friday and it’s raining, heavily. I’ve just had a text telling me my Forsythia is being delivered today but I don’t think I’ll be planting it out today. I’ve also got a new camera battery arriving this afternoon so the quality of my photographs here on the blog might start to improve soon. My phone camera isn’t awful but it isn’t great either. It’s the only thing I miss about a having a high end phone.

So that was my week in a nutshell. That’s two weeks in a row now where I’ve bunged everything into one post at the end of the week! How has your week been?

Not much to report on the sewing front this week. I’ve been feeling rather tired and my mood has been dipping again. Things have been unintentionally garden focused, which is no bad thing. On wednesday I took delivery of a little Lavender plant for the garden. It’s a variegated variety called Platinum Blonde and I’m not sure why I chose it because I’m not fan of variegated leaves on anything. I think I just wanted it to be different from the one we already have which was a wedding present from a friend four years ago. And purely by chance, the new one arrived on our wedding anniversary. How’s that for serendipity!

I don’t have much room for line drying here, so the washing hangs on a line down the length of the garden at an angle, which means the washing hangs partially over the planting. I’m thinking that once the Lavender plants have grown a bit bigger then the sheets might waft across the tops when it’s in flower and make the garden (and the sheets) smell lovely! By the way if you’re wondering why the four year old Lavender is still so small it’s because it’s been through a lot including severe neglect and a house move, but it’s getting there.

The other garden news this week is that we now have a parasol so I can sit outside without getting burned to a crisp. I had been looking at those sail things and trying to figure out how to anchor one to the walls, but then I discovered that half parasols were a thing. Perfect! Now I can sew and write blog posts in the garden.

I’m thinking some seat pads for the chairs might be one of my next sewing projects and perhaps a table cloth to pretty things up a bit. And some bedding plants for some colour are definitely required! The reason the border is so bare is because I wanted to give veg a chance when we first moved in but the shade and slugs made things virtually impossible so I’ve given up and have decided to fill it with some perennial herbs and a few favourite shrubby things.

I’ve also repurposed this bit of artwork of my daughter’s. The metal eye was part of a project from her set design degree and she’s happy for me to reincarnate it as a garden ornament. I will move it to the wall next to the back door eventually but there were already some nails in the wall where it is now so that’s where it will stay until I get my tool kit out.

How has your week been?

We bought our house back in 2018 and although we didn’t move in until October we were regularly peeking from the kerbside from the time of our first viewing in early summer right up until the move. During that whole time the tiny little bit of front garden was a mass of gorgeously sweet smelling, yellow Roses. On reflection I think the Roses may have been the reason I missed the fact that the windows could do with replacing and the garden wall is probably going to collapse in the next five years but hey ho. Roses though! Despite naming one of my daughters Rose, I have never actually grown any. I remember being a bit obsessed with Roses on fabric at around the time she was born and made her a cot quilt and patchwork cushion with some Kaffe Fassett Forget Me Not Rose, but it never occurred to me to plant a Rose! Probably just as well because we have moved three times since she was born, so unless it was potted it would have been left behind anyway.

My first instinct was to keep the Roses in the front garden. There were a couple in the back too but they had to come out so I could hang out the washing without it snagging on thorns. The two at the front of the house are still awaiting a decision on their fate. They are beautiful and largely self sufficient. Every year the other half hacks them right back with a view to us digging them out, we never get round to it and they grow back and flower so fiercely it’s like they’re trying to justify their right to stay. And I would be happy for them to stay if it wasn’t for the fact that the whole of the front needs a complete overhaul. Unfortunately I can’t see a way of getting on top of the weeds and clearing everything else without the Roses coming out or getting damaged if they stay in. I don’t use chemicals as a rule but this little strip of garden has been neglected for over a decade according to one neighbour so the weeds are well established and the ground compacted. I fear a dose of weed killer may be my only chance with this patch especially since I no longer have the strength or stamina for gardening that I once had.

It’s a job I don’t think I can put off much longer. Our house now has the scruffiest garden on the street and because it’s a mess people seem to think it’s okay to dump their crisp packets, coffee cups, face masks and so on in there. Last week someone decided it was the ideal place to offload a child’s scooter and skateboard so now they’re just sat out there because it feels wrong to get rid of them just in case the rightful owner is looking for them. It’s all a bit daunting and I cannot believe I used to manage a fairly large garden, with a thriving vegetable plot most years. Admittedly I was starting to find it a struggle towards the end which is why we opted for a house with only a small strip of garden at the front and back, but having no growing space at all would have been going a little too far and my mental health would not have thanked us for it.

So the front. What to do? Well whatever ‘we’ do it’s going to have to be me that does it because the other half is a bit rubbish at gardening. He’ll hack stuff down and take it to the green waste skip at the tip but for anything else I find he needs too much instruction and he has an obsession with using loppers for everything when a pair of secateurs would suffice. Best just to leave him inside watching Doctor Who while I play ‘avoid talking to the neighbours’ by crouching behind the wall. Does anyone else dread having to have a conversation with a neighbour or a passer by while they’re gardening? I’m sure this is the main reason why my front gardens have always looked more unkempt than my back gardens, every house I’ve ever lived in, no exception! I’m an unsociable sod, I know, but if they knew how much energy I have to spend interacting with them then I’m sure they’d leave me alone to use that energy on making my garden less of an eyesore. Honestly, talk to me while gardening and I will go in for a cup of tea to recover from the social interaction and never come back out again, well only after dark to sneakily tidy the tools away!

The only way I am ever going to get my frontage looking dapper is to devise a plan, stick to it and then hope nobody approaches me! So here’s my plan:

  • Clear the rubbish! This is not something I am comfortable with. There are discarded face masks, wipes and goodness knows what else in there. It’s a job for thick rubber gloves and maybe one of those litter picker pincer thingys.
  • Kill off the vegetation. Weed killer I’m afraid. I can’t get down on my hands and knees to tease out by hand and some of those weeds are well established perennials who think they own the place. I don’t have the patience to wait another year while they suffocate under a layer of plastic or old carpet.
  • Tidy up the edging stones. One or two have been completely removed but are still lying around. They just need putting back.
  • Remove dead vegetation (assuming the chemicals have worked!)
  • Level the soil and remove some if necessary.
  • Put down membrane and cover with stone chippings.
  • Pop a few low maintenance pots and planters on the stone chippings.
  • Stand back and say job done!
So we made a start!

I’m also toying with the idea of painting the wall. It is not the original wall and the brick used is an ugly orange sort of brick that is spalling all over the path so covering that up would instantly make things look better. But that would mean being out on the pavement while I painted! Almost certainly that would mean PEOPLE. Hmm. I’m going to have to think about that one carefully! Look! A Ladybird!